So 2020 was… weird.
Surreal?
Exhausting?
Last spring, when COVID really came centerstage across the world, life as we knew it imploded. Then imploded again. And again.
And it doesn’t seem to be done yet.
But in the midst of global and national upheaval, I think there’s still value in personal introspection. Of taking the past year and myself in review as 2021 unfolds. Because if there’s anything the enforced slowness of COVID has given me, it’s time for self-investigation.
So as an artist/writer/reader, here are a few things 2020 taught me.
No. 1: GoodReads Reading Challenge ≠ Me
It seemed like such a good idea back when I signed up in January 2020. Back when I was shiny and dumb (to steal a line from John Mulaney). I like to read, I thought. I’m goal-oriented—I love checking things off a list. This’ll be fun.
Wrong, wrong, wrong.
For those unfamiliar, the GoodReads Reading Challenge goes like this: you set a goal of how many books you’d like to read that year, then chart your progress. GoodReads monitors your headway, telling you if you’re on-track to reach your goal. Simple, right?
Here’s the problem. Reading is one of the only things I do just for me, simply because I want to (that and surfing). The rest of my life is pretty regimented. I think it goes with the turf of being a freelancer–if I don’t keep a leash on my time management, nobody else will.
By assigning myself a number of books to read within a set period of time, I converted that last bastion of relaxation into another benchmark. Don’t get me wrong: one excellent outcome was that I read a lot more books, most by authors new to me. I loved some of them.
But I also found myself powering through books I wasn’t enjoying because I’d invested too many hours to start something new. Choosing books based on length rather than interest. Shorting myself on sleep and stressing about hitting my goal–a totally unnecessary stress in year already chock-a-block with unavoidable ones.
I am not necessarily trying to discourage anyone else from taking on a GoodReads challenge. If you’re not a goal-psycho like myself, maybe you can enjoy the benefits and let go when it stops being fun.
But here’s what I learned: it’s worth pausing to consider whether it’s wise to twist a thing you love into an obligation.
No. 2: Speed Painting
2020 was the year of watercoloring. From January to May, I painted like a fiend to prepare for my art show in Rockville, MD (which, of course, was cancelled/is still delayed due to COVID). Then in the later half of the year, I had four large-scale projects to finish in the brief period of 7 weeks. Being at the beginning of my artist career, this goal was a Goliath to my David. I was sure I couldn’t cover that much canvas that quickly.
But guess what?
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